What is happiness in marriage for a woman?, to have a big house?, a prosperous husband?, time for your talents?, Do not have financial difficulties? Have fun with her husband? Is it the pride of being a good housewife or be admired by her friends?
All these things are important and some essential, but there is a need that is crucial: to be loved and praised by her man. Women without this ingredient are not complete, it may be a successful person in many ways, and happy to some degree, but will have a lack of something.
According to the Book “Fascinating womanhood” by Helen Andelin, the ideal woman (from man’s point of view), is divided into two parts. The first part is composed of spiritual qualities; known as the angelic side. The second is her human characteristics, so we will call it the human side.
Angelic side: great influence over men. It brings peace and happiness. This kind of woman calms and soothes the man
There are many women with angelic personality-worthy women. They are great mothers, housewives and efficient person. Their husbands appreciate them a lot, but they lack of human qualities, that delight men. A man wants to have more than an angel as a wife..
Human side: fascination and fun. Delicate and wonderful ways raises an irresistible desire to protect and care.
On the other hand, there are some human women, who are tender, childish and cheerful creatures, but they lack the grandeur of character, personality, and determination. Being too selfish to be good housewives and mothers, and lacking the skill it takes to understand men.
There is no reason why a woman cannot have human and angelic qualities together, as the Angelic and Human qualities are not counterproductive. Both are natural parts of femininity, and essential to feminine charm.
Men and women differ in their opinions about what is “the ideal woman”. Women tend to give more value to the talent, intellectual knowledge and skillful personality, while men admire femininity, tenderness, sweetness of character, the vivacity and skill she possesses to understand men.
There is a marked difference of opinion as to appearance. Women favor the artistic beauty; for example, face shape, nose, and colorful clothes. Men however give a different interpretation of “making a woman look beautiful.” They put more emphasis on the brightness of the eyes, the smile, the freshness, radiance and good manners.
Want to know more about the angelic and human side?
I will be speaking on this subject the following days. You’ll find great tips that will help you develop both qualities.
What do you think about these characteristics? Do you identify being “Angelical” or “Human”? Do you have a different point of view about the ideal woman? Please share in the comments box below.
Source: “Fascinating womanhood” by Helen Andelin