Summary of the 10 SECRETS (II)



  1. Your husband’s God-given role is to lead you and provide for you.
  2. Allow him to do it.
  3. Your role is to be his companion, a mother and a homemaker.
  4. Let him know your views, but support his final decision 100%.
  5. Let him worry about the finances.


  1. Men deeply admire inner serenity and goodness in their wives.
  2. Your husband wants you to be a better person than himself.
  3. Goodness and inner serenity are required in a woman for a man to love her deeply.
  4. Inner serenity develops in a woman when she becomes free of pride and self-righteousness, always does and says the right thing, is free of guilt, and has a forgiving heart.


  1. Your God-given role is that of mother and homemaker. Enjoy it.
  2. Motherhood is the most noble and important work on earth. Enjoy the wonderful satisfaction of raising happy, secure children. Men respect motherhood.
  3. Allow time to enjoy your home making. Homemaking is a woman’s life-long career. Do it well.
  4. Cultivate woman friends. Visit together. Do things together. Confide in each other.
  5. Develop your talents.
  6. Plan your days in advance by using a desk top calendar planning diary.