SECRET NUMBER FIVE: Men deeply admire inner serenity and goodness.

Men joke about their wives being their ‘better half’. This is based on the truth that men sincerely want us to be like that. Men expect us to be better than them. To be more cheerful. To be kinder, more forgiving, more caring, more spiritual.

They also like us to have a mysterious serenity about us. They find it fascinating. That’s why the Mona Lisa painting stirs so many men’s hearts. But not many women’s hearts.

A cheerful, serene wife, one who is good and noble in her personality, is highly attractive to a man. She meets a deep need for virtue and wholesomeness in his life. He needs such a wife to create the peaceful and feminine home atmosphere so necessary to renew his spirit. He wants such a woman as this, to be the mother of his children. And children need a mother like this, if they are to develop into warm, caring adults.

 We can be so disappointing to our husband when we lower our standards. Sometimes our husband will even test us, just to reassure himself that we’re as good as we seem. Men like to put us on a pedestal.


Our goal is to be serene and cheerful, if not all the time, at least most of the time. We can only achieve that by being full of goodness and practicing unconditional love. Our spiritual or sub-conscious mind is very powerful, for good, or bad.

 There are 3 stages to help women do that. If you’re interested in knowing about those stages, let me know and I can send you the information to your email. I’ll avoid those stages here, because it requires you to do many ‘homework’ and many information that need to be explained.

Do you want to know about the 3 stages?

 STAGE ONE: How to permanently rid your mind  of hurts other people have caused you

 STAGE TWO: How to permanently rid your mind of guilt for hurts you have caused others

STAGE THREE: How to re-program your mind

Source: “Fascinating womanhood” by Helen Andelin